I guess Injinear was right, you are not ready yet to mix-design your concrete.
here is the MIX FROM HELL..

..THE MONSTER OF ALL CONCRETE MIXES..

.. it should yield a compressive strength of 107 MPa @ 28 days with a good slump Other wise use a superplasticizer with a dose 1-1.5% of the weight of cement + fly ash + silica fume but I doubt you will need it…..
Maximum size aggregate----13 mm
Cement--------------------475 kg/m3
Fly Ash-------------------104 kg/m3 Class C
Silica fume----------------74 kg/m3
w/c-----------------------0.231
Total Water---------------151 kg/m3
By knowing the specific gravity of each of the above ingredient, the volume of the water, cement, fly ash, and silica fume can be computed :
Absolute volume = weight/absolute unit weight
Absolute unit weight = Specific gravity*1000
example: if the specific gravity of cement = 3.15
then the unit weight = 3.15*1000
and the volume of the cement in 1 m3 = 475*(3.15*1000)
now all the volumes are known, knowing that:
volume of a unit weight of concrete = sum of all volumes
1 m3= V cement +V water + V fly ash+ V silica fume + V aggregates (assuming the volume of air is 0)
the volume of aggregates is known...
Knowing the grading of your aggregates, find the best proportioning between coarse and fine to satisfy the combined grading specifications.(( i think you already know how to do that))
simple as that...You are ready to go!!!!!!!
AS FOR YOUR QUESTIONS::::
1. You un-mold the cylinders after 24 hours unless the concrete tends to stick to the mold (if you use superplasticizer)then wait for a few hours.then cure in water/steam immediately.
2. Let it stand dry before testing for at least 6 hours.
3. Wash the aggregates with plain water… don't get into stuff you can't handle.
FINALLY>>>>>>>> make as much cylinders as you can ,if you are allowed too.... the more the cylinders,the more the mean compressive strength will be closer to the targeted strength...... The great lows of STANDARED DEVIATION!!!!
HAVE FUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!